From: Computerpilot on 12/09/2002
Windows always gives that warning. Usually Windows XP will show recommended settings as the only options unless you tell it to show all options.This is usually as sign that it is near time for a new monitor. I am not sure if it is new or not. If it is new, you may consider returning the monitor and telling them the problem that you are having.
In addition, it is entirely possible that your video card is also causing the problem. It is less likey than your monitor but still a possiblity. You may try the higher refresh rate and then push back your graphics acceleration/color bit size/resolution.
Computerpilot